Dreams as pre-verbal space of life
31.03.2019
While traditional psychoanalysis often emphasizes the interpretation of dreams, Gestalt therapy takes a different, more dynamic approach. Fritz Perls, a pioneer of Gestalt therapy, viewed dreams not as puzzles to decode but as opportunities for integration and growth. He famously stated:
“I especially love working with dreams. I believe that in a dream, we have a clear existential message of what’s missing in our lives, what we avoid doing and living.”
In Gestalt therapy, dreams are brought to life through enactment and exploration. Rather than dissecting them into symbolic fragments, the focus is on re-living the dream as if it were happening in the present moment. This process transforms the dream from a distant memory into a vivid, lived experience, enabling individuals to reconnect with repressed emotions, unresolved conflicts, and hidden desires.
Through this method, dreams serve an integrative function, bridging the gap between the id (our raw instincts and sensations) and the conscious self (our qualities, values, and relationships). Neuroscience supports this idea, showing that the brain regions responsible for motor function and linguistic comprehension overlap. This suggests that the act of embodying and verbalizing dream elements activates both physical and cognitive capacities, fostering a sense of wholeness and vitality.
For clients, this process can be profoundly empowering. By identifying with specific symbols or characters from their dreams, they can uncover and assimilate neglected parts of themselves. This integration often leads to greater self-awareness, enhanced emotional resilience, and a renewed ability to engage with the world and others meaningfully.
Dreams as a Mirror of Relationships
Dreams are deeply relational, reflecting not only our inner dynamics but also our interactions with the people around us. In therapy, they provide a unique space for exploring the patterns and projections that shape our relationships. When a client shares a dream, they invite the therapist into a shared narrative—a co-created space where the past (“there and then”) meets the present (“here and now”).
Consider a client who dreams of being chased by an unknown figure. This dream may symbolize an unacknowledged fear or a recurring pattern in their relationships. By acting out the dream in therapy, the client can confront these emotions directly, often gaining insights into how they affect their interactions with others. This relational function of dreams is particularly powerful when it comes to addressing unmet needs or habitual behaviors that cause suffering.
The Role of Aggression in Dream Work
Unacknowledged emotions, particularly aggression, frequently surface in dreams. When repressed, aggression can manifest as nightmares or external conflicts, creating barriers in relationships and impeding personal growth. Dreams offer a safe space to explore these feelings, often represented symbolically as animals, strangers, or chaotic events.
Take the example of Ann, a client who struggled with frequent criticisms and conflicts in her professional life. Her upbringing had instilled beliefs such as “you must never show anger” and “always forgive others,” leaving her unable to assert herself or set boundaries. Through dream work, Ann confronted these introjected beliefs, eventually reclaiming her suppressed anger as a protective and empowering force.
This transformation was beautifully illustrated in a dream where Ann rode a majestic wolf, a creature she once feared and fought in nightmares. By embodying the wolf in therapy, Ann discovered newfound confidence, strength, and joy. This shift not only improved her relationships but also enhanced her ability to navigate challenges in her career. Her dreams, once a source of inner turmoil, became a powerful ally in her journey toward self-empowerment.
Dreams as a Gateway to Personal Growth
Dreams, according to Perls, are projections of the self, while Erich Fromm viewed them as retroflexions—turning inward on unexpressed feelings. I see them as a synthesis of both: projections shaped by unexamined beliefs, with the potential to illuminate paths for growth.
Through dream work, the chaotic, shadowed aspects of our psyche find clarity. By engaging with these projections—whether as symbolic animals, objects, or familiar faces—we create a dialogue between our inner and outer worlds. This process not only deepens self-awareness but also unlocks the energy and motivation needed to live authentically and purposefully.
The Transformative Space of Dream Work
Dreams offer more than fleeting glimpses of the unconscious; they are a profound, living space for exploration and transformation. In therapy, they become a dynamic playground where clients can enact roles, develop dialogues, and explore relationships. This playful yet profound process helps connect disparate contexts, expand consciousness, and foster a sense of agency.
The repression that underpins many dreams is closely tied to introjects—beliefs absorbed from the environment that may no longer serve us. For example, a person who suppresses anger due to the belief that “it’s wrong to be angry” may experience recurring nightmares of conflict or aggression. By confronting these introjects and reclaiming their rightful emotions, clients can dissolve barriers, set healthier boundaries, and cultivate deeper connections with themselves and others.
Dreams are more than a nocturnal escape; they are a portal to self-discovery, integration, and growth. They reveal our deepest needs, fears, and desires, offering a symbolic map of the soul. In therapy, dreams serve as a bridge between the unconscious and conscious mind, enabling individuals to confront their shadows, reclaim their power, and transform their relationships.
As Fritz Perls aptly noted, “If you understand what you can do with dreams, you can do a tremendous lot for yourself.” Dreams, ultimately, are not puzzles to solve but invitations to live more fully—to embrace our complexities, connect with others, and move through life with greater intention and authenticity. Through their vivid narratives, we find not just meaning, but the strength and clarity to shape our own stories.